Those who celebrate Thanksgiving know the feeling of being home, surrounded by love, colorful decorations, and the excitement of preparing a big family meal. For me, this time of year brings a special sense of warmth and togetherness. We cook our favorite dishes, like sweet potato pie or turkey. We play board games after dinner, and continue sharing countless stories throughout the night. There’s just something comforting about making new memories and bonding with the people I care about most. Each Thanksgiving reminds me to keep being grateful for my family and the love that fills our home.
To dive deeper into family traditions, I’ve learned that every household celebrates Thanksgiving in its own unique way. While my family shares stories, cooks our favorite recipes, and enjoys games together, other families might travel across the country to be with loved ones, prepare special dishes, or take part in unique customs like breaking the wishbone or watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Some even find ways to give back by volunteering or helping those in need. Exploring these different traditions makes me realize how Thanksgiving is a blend of old customs and new memories for millions of people. Whether it’s a decades-old recipe, a fun family ritual, or a tradition of kindness, each adds its own warmth and meaning to the holiday.
I was curious to hear about traditions beyond my own, so I sent a survey to students at Pacifica High School asking about their family traditions. I received some responses saying they host a party and encourage everyone to bring food. Another student shared that they rotate within their family as to who will host Thanksgiving dinner. Also, this person invites immediate family and extended family, making it a night full of togetherness and reunion. Some students participate in karaoke after dinner and engage in fun activities that offer prizes. Once again, this shows just how meaningful family gatherings can be.
As I reflect on what Thanksgiving means to me, I’m reminded that gratitude shouldn’t be limited to just one day in November. The act of appreciating loved ones and expressing thanks for the small joys in life is something I try to carry with me throughout the year. Simple things, like a shared laugh at the dinner table or a quiet moment together, help me remember what’s truly important. By practising gratitude every day, I find a deeper sense of connection and happiness, not just during the holidays, but all year long.
Looking ahead, I hope to continue the traditions that make Thanksgiving special in my family, while also creating new ones as we grow and change. Maybe one day I’ll host my own Thanksgiving/Friendsgiving—cherishing those we love and giving thanks—will always remain. Passing down these values and memories is what I look forward to most as we celebrate together for years to come.
